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I would just like to make sure of something!
Sometimes Jeccas do silly somethings and post stuff they perhaps should not! Maybe it is part of a conversation she has had with someone. Maybe it is something she overheard someone say! Maybe it is something else entirely that is ridiculously stupid! Whatever Jecca has done that is silly, though, she is probably not aware of it! She does not post things intending to hurt or really upset people!
Guys, seriously, please, I beg of you all, if I ever post anything that upsets you in any way, LET ME KNOW. Drop a comment, or send me an e-mail, or... whatever, but please, please tell me. If you don't want other people to know, you can delete the comment! Or maybe even leave it anonymously! I am not going to call anyone out for being hurt by something I post! I WILL NOT BE ANGRY! I will feel bad and take steps to rectify the situation.
Perhaps I will lock down the entry, or outright delete it. Perhaps I will remove whatever it is that has caused the problem. I don't know. It will change situation to situation.
But please tell me. Don't just let it sit around, because then not only does it get around and everyone else sees whatever has upset you, but - and here I am selfish - I get really annoyed if I am approached a week or more later. And I feel weird locking entries several days after posting them (usually it goes the other way...most entries that I post as either friends or private locked open up after they fall off the top of the page). AND I feel bad, but I am also angry about it. I know that is not anyone's problem but mine, but please, please let me know sooner rather than later, if you can.
LONG STORY SHORT: CALL ME ON MY SHIT
.... AND DESPITE ALL OF THE ABOVE, I KIND OF SUSPECT THIS ENTRY'S GOING TO UPSET SOMEONE, TOO, BUT I REALLY WANT TO MAKE SURE THIS ISN'T A PROBLEM! So, I am sorry in advance! I AM NOT SINGLING ANYONE OUT, or I am not meaning to, if I am? I do not know if I am. I do not think I am! Possibly I am wrong! But either way, it has happened before and I see no reason why it couldn't happen again, and just let me know. I will not make drama out of it!
And again this entry is the exception just because I want to be sure everyone knows this.
I could go on including EXCEPT THIS ENTRY I AM SORRY IF THIS ALSO UPSETS YOU BUT I WANT TO BE SURE EVERYONE KNOWS THEY CAN CALL ME ON SHIT statements until my fingers fall off, but I think I will quit now before I fall behind any more.
(Edit:
The entry that prompted this has been locked, so, uh, no, you can't see whatever it was now, unless you notice one is missing. There wasn't any drama there, anyway. I was approached through a different medium. But I don't want to draw attention to it by flat out stating which entry it was, so I will not publicly say which one it was.)
Sometimes Jeccas do silly somethings and post stuff they perhaps should not! Maybe it is part of a conversation she has had with someone. Maybe it is something she overheard someone say! Maybe it is something else entirely that is ridiculously stupid! Whatever Jecca has done that is silly, though, she is probably not aware of it! She does not post things intending to hurt or really upset people!
Guys, seriously, please, I beg of you all, if I ever post anything that upsets you in any way, LET ME KNOW. Drop a comment, or send me an e-mail, or... whatever, but please, please tell me. If you don't want other people to know, you can delete the comment! Or maybe even leave it anonymously! I am not going to call anyone out for being hurt by something I post! I WILL NOT BE ANGRY! I will feel bad and take steps to rectify the situation.
Perhaps I will lock down the entry, or outright delete it. Perhaps I will remove whatever it is that has caused the problem. I don't know. It will change situation to situation.
But please tell me. Don't just let it sit around, because then not only does it get around and everyone else sees whatever has upset you, but - and here I am selfish - I get really annoyed if I am approached a week or more later. And I feel weird locking entries several days after posting them (usually it goes the other way...most entries that I post as either friends or private locked open up after they fall off the top of the page). AND I feel bad, but I am also angry about it. I know that is not anyone's problem but mine, but please, please let me know sooner rather than later, if you can.
LONG STORY SHORT: CALL ME ON MY SHIT
.... AND DESPITE ALL OF THE ABOVE, I KIND OF SUSPECT THIS ENTRY'S GOING TO UPSET SOMEONE, TOO, BUT I REALLY WANT TO MAKE SURE THIS ISN'T A PROBLEM! So, I am sorry in advance! I AM NOT SINGLING ANYONE OUT, or I am not meaning to, if I am? I do not know if I am. I do not think I am! Possibly I am wrong! But either way, it has happened before and I see no reason why it couldn't happen again, and just let me know. I will not make drama out of it!
And again this entry is the exception just because I want to be sure everyone knows this.
I could go on including EXCEPT THIS ENTRY I AM SORRY IF THIS ALSO UPSETS YOU BUT I WANT TO BE SURE EVERYONE KNOWS THEY CAN CALL ME ON SHIT statements until my fingers fall off, but I think I will quit now before I fall behind any more.
(Edit:
The entry that prompted this has been locked, so, uh, no, you can't see whatever it was now, unless you notice one is missing. There wasn't any drama there, anyway. I was approached through a different medium. But I don't want to draw attention to it by flat out stating which entry it was, so I will not publicly say which one it was.)
